Dear Minick,

In the end I guess it is his decision. You have done all you can and he doesn't want to respond.
All you can do now is support him and his famly. Don't feel guilty about a decision he made.
He is probably scared as hell. Having a reoccurrance so soon after the surgery would dampen anyones spirt. We all go thru phases during treatment. Why me, Anger, depression, Guilt over lifestyles that we can't take back, etc. After awhile we get over these and put our fighting gloves on. I hope he doesn't give up and finds the strength to fight like hell.

All My Best, Danny Boy