I set a target too that I would return to my job in a month's time post treatment since I loved my job so much. This imposed tremendous stress on myself both physically and mentally. I felt so disappointed every time going to the doctor knowing that I was not yet ready to work again. I pushed myself too hard that I became depressed gradually. I agree with members here that we need to listen to our body. Every case is unique and we should never compare ourselves with others. There were people who could still work during treatment, some who could work a few weeks post treatment and some who were never able to work again after the treatment. It took me 7 months since my diagnosis to resume my previous job and took me at least a year afterwards to really get myself functioning fully. After working for 3 more years after my cancer battle, I finally decide to retire from my job to do something more meaningful and enjoyable. That's why I become more active these days on the forum.

Karen