Wow, its amazing how differently everyone see's this. Im glad i posted the question and i love the responses! Thank you everyone.
Sara

Second care giver for my dad who has SCC stage 4, diagnosed 5/18/05, met to epiglottis, base of tounge, throat and lymph nodes bi laterally. IMRT 5 days a week and sisplatin every other week for 6 1/2 weeks started July 20, 2005