This is a post I could never share with Harry. It was very funny and I always need the laughter but you must understand that this was one of his biggest hangups about the treatments.

He said that if we didn't really have a marriage when this was done then what was the point?

I cannot tell him that his sex drive will be stumped for a while and maybe longer. He would give up now.

This is one of those guy things I think I will never understand. It is not that important to me but he makes a big deal out of it.

By the way... where did the popcicle stick instructions go? :-)

Cindy


Caregiver to ex-husband Harry. Dx 12/10/04 SCC stg 3, BOT with 2 nodes left side. No surg/chemo x4 /rad.x37(rad comp. 03/29/05)Cisplatin/5FU(comp. 05/07/05)-T1N2M0-(cancer free 06/14/05)-(12/10/06) 2 yr. Survivor!!!