Hey Karen.
I responded yesterday. And was reading the thread again today. What a shame!
Follow all the given advise, and I'm sure you will succeed.
It's a travesty of justice! A Vietnam Vet, and (didn't they prove agent orange was harmless?)
a United States of America postal worker.
I did have a good laugh though when I re-read your post. I was tired last night, and did not catch your humor.."I quess he will just get up after surgery and get a job".
You need that to survive "our system".
I went out to get a Rx this morning, only to find my truck "stolen". Turned out that although I filed a Chapter 13, and the truck was included in my payments, they repo'ed it. My first reaction was WTF! My second was, oh well, just another bump in the road.
I went inside, got a second cup of coffee and read the paper as if nothing had happened. WTF!