Minnie
Wow you are truly an amazing person as I am sure your daughters are too. You have been through alot and you never get all good with no bad but when you do get some bad is when it is the best time to rely on your family and you'll see you guys will make it through. As for your daughter I am sure she is feeling something simalr to what I felt and sometimes the only thing you can do is listen and she may not even talk but still listen. everyone deals in there own way with me I didn't talk and then just lost it when no one was around.
I think that was by far the scariest thing because I thought that if I couldn't hold it together how could I hold my mom together. We all at one point or another take care of are parents but we expect to be grown-up by then and have some sort of emotional grounding I guess. You can count on her as I am sure you know and all of your familay and throught it all you find that as long as you guys can smile at one another no matter how bad it gets you guys will be just fine.
Well that was kinda long winded but I hope it helps a little. and if your daughter ever needs someone to talk to or not talk to :)just tell her to message me its good to know your not alone esecially when your lonely.

Good luck and well wishes to you and your famialy
Dragon