Anniemay no one can truly answer the question you have asked but i do have very recent personal experience of this situation as do some others such as Amy.It is a very delicate subject to discuss on an open forum where people are still fighting the fight,but if you want to send me an e-mail or private message i will help where i can .I could also suggest that you read the blogs for myself and amy mine is called "walking towards the light" and amy's is a "caregivers journal" you will find them on the forum index under OCF Cancer Blogs.

I am sorry for your news

liz