Thank you!
Am at a low point right now---but as the 'sufferer' and not the 'caregiver' , I do some of the same stuff!
Ray works 2 nights a week, so I stick post-its near his 'breakfast stuff' or TV chair just telling him how much I love him.
I do 1 sort of 'generic' email after treatment and put in multiple addresses and I also make jokes--keep telling him he has to make me coffee cos I got cancer--he tells me to get stuffed, he's put the kettle on and that's a concession!
Go girl---I like it!

Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!