Not everyone's family is helpful and that's worse than having no help at all because it drains energy when you have none to spare. Hang in there Amy, eventually they will go home. Regards JoAnne

JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.