We are dealing with a little bit different situation here. John's last rad. tx was 7 days ago. Since then he had spent about 98% of the time sleeping. Our son comes by 2 or more times a day, and questions me "is this normal?' "Why is he still in bed?" "Shouldn't you take him to our family Doc?" and our daughter in law comes over with our adorable, rambumtious 15 mo. old grandaughter to make John feel better.While I know they are wellmeaning, I am resentful that they have not taken the time to educate themselves as to the treatment and after effects.Our 14 yr. old grandson went with us and watched one of John's rad tx,[says he might use the experience for a science project next yr.]. Our son never asked to go with his Dad. I am defending myself for not calling or running John to the Dr. everyday and all John wants to do is to be left alone to rest.I know they care and I am very appreciative of that, but I am beginning to feel like a policeman as well as a caregiver.Hard choices all the way around. Amy