Hi DJS
No-one can do it all, my husband is in remission for advanced prostate cancer and I'm now recovering from surgery for oral cancer, I know that many of my questions are unanswered because I cannot be all things to both of us,all I can do is my best, but YES I have to trust that the doctors do their best also, and I have to believe that this is what they try to do. So if God is on OUR side we have to win through, as Judy says, we are all "family" here, so stay with us...
Sunshine... love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04