I'm 44 and the caregiver to my 48 year old husband who is a non-smoker and very light drinker (about 1 or 2 drinks per month). I don't think we fit your current profile. However, if there is anything we can do to help, please let me know.

Margaret
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C/G: Husband, 48 (at time of dx)
Dx 5/18/07 SCC, BOT, lymph node involvement. T1N2BM0. (Stage 4a, G2/3)
Tx 6/18 - 8/3/07, IMRT x 33 Cisplatin x3 (stopped after 1st dose due to hearing issues). Weekly Erbitux started 6/27/07 completed 8/6/07.