Small Minnow,

After 8 weeks of radiation I was also feeling truly miserable and somewhat embarrassed about how unhealthy I looked to people who had known me for a long time. I found it harder and harder to interact with people (although I couldn't avoid it completely, as I was still working part-time). I disagree with the person who told you to distance yourself -- you've let your friend know that you're available if he needs your help, and that's so important at this point, even if he's not ready to let you help. I'm hoping that with some more intensive medical support from the hospital and the end of his radiation, he'll start to see some improvement soon and get back in touch with you.

Cathy