I wouldn't want to say that sex is bad for us. It is a beautiful thing, a mechanism for sharing intimacy as well as the more basic satisfaction of our natural physical instincts. Truth be known, it's a dangerous world out there, and as I have said many times before, you could just as easily get smacked by a truck tomorrow as have a recurrence, or develop an HPV related malignancy for instance. When it comes to sexually transmitted disease, I am certainly no authority, though as a child of the free love 60's, I was far from celibate. Really far

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.