I lost both of my parents to sudden accidents. The worst thing for me was not having the opportunity to tell them I love them and goodbye. Your situation is so very tough and I can't say I understand but I run the thought through my head everytime I read someones post that is facing this knowing I may someday be in your dad's shoes. For that matter I could be in your shoes as well. I always wonder what I would tell my wife and son and other relatives to ease their minds. I don't know and probably won't unless I'm in that position, but I think it would be much worse to be away from each other. Again the whole situation is very hard but maybe it is paradise because you will get to be with him. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Lee