I go to every treatment and appointment Robin has,and i have to say as far as hospital doctors and treatment Robin always uses the "we" word.I always ask the questions robin is thinking about and i always question every decision they make on his behalf.This makes me feel involved and also saves Robin from walking away and saying "oh blast i meant to ask them this or that" or worse still walking away not knowing why they are doing things to him.We have a formula where i listen and then translate when we get home.He never asked me to go to radiotherapy with him ,it was sort of taken for granted i guess..