Thanks for all the imput. Looks like our 2 kids that are in college will each be taking their turn for the driving while they are home. I will probable go on the days Marvin has a doctors apt just so I get the information straight on those days. Our other son has made arragements where he works to get two 1/2 days off instead of 1 full day and work on saturday to help also. Marvin just had his first chemo today (his birthday)so far so good. But I know the effects can take a few days to show up so we will be watching for them. He slep though most of the first drug because of the meds they gave him before they started. We are starting to get in a routine that will help. Praying for the best out come with least possible bad side effects.