AngelGirl, Hope you are a good listener! Try to give her permission to rant, rave, cry - whatever she feels like doing. Let her know that you are not afraid to hear about the physical pain she is having and what is bothering\scaring her at this point. Do you have any pictures of times you were together in the past- think of good memories to talk about. Ask what errands you might run while you are there, or groceries or creature comforts you could get for her, offer to clean a closet or wash her hair or do something she doesn't have the energy to tackle. Respect her need to rest and sleep. Let her know you are glad to be there. Amy