Robin
The Doc is definately downplaying the side effects but, no need to scare Reagan at this point. If there is any way you can get her to bulk up just now before starting treament please do so . Try the milk shake recipe it has a ton of calories.
Amifostine is absolutely worth trying , she may be one of the lucky ones who can tolerate it, even a few treatments can help.
She is lucky to have you to care for her .

take Care
Marica