Every day IS better smile Just the idea that treatment is OVER has brightened the outlook.

We took the bandages off today. (Big Sigh). He's pretty swollen, and I think I am already seeing the 'lumpiness' in several areas that I'llhave to research on this site. I believe I recall reading that we'll have to massage those areas to move the fluid.....he's a bit gun shy about having me touch anything right now....

Minnie, the stiffness is already in his arms, esp. the right one. So far he says he can't feel a thing in his neck except for a bit of tingling.....
He got back on the treadmill this morning and did a mile smile and we have our sights set on Tuesday's meeting with the surgeon.

I'm keeping a keen eye out for the depression - I know it is lurking. I try to alleviate his anxiety - and tell him often how 'good' he is looking. That may well be stretching a point, but to me he is still the most handsome guy I know smile
I'll let you all know the pathology report next week..
My best to all of you..
Nicki


Nicki, wife of Thomas
dx July 2004, SCC, Stage 4 Tonsil. Tx begun 8/4/04. Cisplatin/Xeloda x 4; IMRT 7 wks, 8/7 - 10/25/04 Modified Radical Dissection (right), Selective Dissection (Left) 12/10/04.