Nicki (Tom, too),
I was smiling, sobbing and cheering as I read your post. Tom is surely the type of person I would like to work for based on the wonderful celebration at the finish line! It was so much fun to travel this journey with you and I am honored that you kept us all informed along the way.
I had the "wait and see" treatment, too. The scans have shown no signs of cancer for over a year but for some silly reason, I am still second guessing the decision to not have surgery. If I knew what I know now about this dreaded disease, I believe I would have opted for the surgery after radiation. Just my two cents worth.
I trusted my otolaryngologist since he had the experience and mine was already stage IV with 2 lymph node involvement.
I know today was in important milestone and you should stop and enjoy the moment. All I really remember from this period of treatment was running to the toilet because when I looked in the bathroom mirror, the image I saw scared me a little. My wife nicknamed me Jarjar Binks because I just darted across the mirror.
May God continue to shower His blessings on you and Tom.
Ed