HELLO!

Looking for information on Pain Management...Linda is in terrible pain. Seems like all over her body at times...she is taking just about every drug and lots of it! It's scary! Any advice on pain management for SEVERE PAIN? Any information wiLL be most grateful. Something stronger? Or should she be doing alternative stuff - here we go again with alternative therapy but whatelse can she do for this kinda of pain?.... FEELING HELPLESS AGAIN...NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO FOR HER...PLEASE HELP...Thanks Flo XOX
p.s....
My friends and family are telling me to take care of myself but, I cannot seem to find the energy or the time to care for me...anyone else in this situation at all...I feel too guilty...I feel that I need to help Linda 24/7 when I'm not helping her I feel lost and very sad. Yes, I know that I would be even more help for her if I take care of myself but, when? and without the guilt...can't seem to find it in me...feel too selfish...if I go off and do stuff for just me, myself and I...and besides it seems that something always happens...I swear! The phone will ring about something happening and then I need to fly up to her house...it's crazy I tell you...what a life we are all leading...I feel that I really could lose it mentally and physically. Maybe I already have...take care...Love Flo xox


Caregiver for my loving Sister Linda 37, Advanced Recurrence SCC of the Head and Neck. 2003
Diag. June 2000 with Tongue Cancer in Stage 3/Treatment RAD