Hi Dinah,

Thanks for the good wishes. It means a lot to hear from all you great people who have "been there, done that". No one else really seems to understand. We had a birthday party for Heather last Sunday. Not a very happy affair since she was still really sick. But she appreciated it and it was very small, just a few family members, so she just stayed on the sofa and relaxed.

Anyway, since I see her every day, I forget how bad she looks to other people that don't see her as often. A couple days after the party, my mother-in-law called and wondered if she should send her preacher out to see Heather. I guess Heather looked so weak and sick that she thought maybe the end was near. That was a real shocker! She might be having a lot of problems right now, but this fight is far from being over!

That made me realize again how valuable this forum is for patients and caregivers. I feel so sad for people that don't have this kind of support. I know I would be lost without it. Cheers to everyone who participates and especially to Brian!!!. smile laugh smile

Thanks!
Rosie


Was primary caregiver to my daughter Heather who had stage IV base of tongue SCC w/ primary recurrence. Original diagnosis August 21st, 2002. Primary recurrence March 18th, 2003. Died October 6th, 2003.