Kathleen,

When I was diagnosed all I could think about was the cancer. When I was told that they, the surgeons, would be splitting my jaw open I forgot all about the cancer and worried about the operation. I was totally consumed by thoughts of the surgery. I don't want to minimize your concerns, but the surgery sounds a lot worse than it is. Don't get me wrong here, it is tough but not as bad as it sounds. I was amazed at how quickly the jaw healed. Try to keep your spirits up. I tried to look at the surgery as a good thing, it marked the beginning of a new and hopefully cancer free life.

My prayers are with you, your Mum and family.

Glenn