Laura
being a carer means just that.YOU CARE!! the very nature of the job means there will be many many times you have to sit and wait and wonder and there will be many times when your heart will break to see what this bloody disease and the treatment for it are doing to your Dad.
Just keep focused on what your Dad needs hun.

Top of the list Love,Smiles,a positive attitude, cry in private and vent on these boards .will be thinking of you on Friday

love Liz

Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.