MANY THANKS to each of you for sharing your thoughts! I've printed all of your posts to share with Buzz, so that he will know that he's not the only one needing a little assistance with the coping.

Like Bill, Buzz is a pilot. He's also a world-sailor and (I've always believed) that he was born WITHOUT the 'fear gene'...He's been my HERO for more than 26 years! and is absolutely the smartest man I have ever known.

I believe it's more difficult for you guys who have always been in total control of all situations....He feels that he let me down this morning, which makes no sense to me at all!

Again, thanks for your input!


CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge; Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;
T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A
28 IMRT +
6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin
Getting stronger every day!