Virgina
I was staged at IV also. This also freaked me out, but as I got into the treatment that was soon forgotten. You have an up hill battle, but go into it as a battle. I am 4 years out and I am going to be around alot longer. My inspiration is a guy here in my home town that had oral cancer and the doctors gave 6months to a year to live. He is 15 yes 15years out. So you never know he told me to fight like hell and that is what I intend to do. Keep the faith.