Sweety, I lost my hair and look at it as a very small price to pay for being here to tell you about it. I got a nice wig and wore it with hats, as with a bowling ball for a head, any wind can send your hair flying (grin). I also bought quite a few colorful scarves and wore them pirate style. The American Cancer Society has a TLC catalog where they sell very reasonably priced hats and wigs and other coverups. You can see the products online here:
http://www.tlccatalog.org/ I understand that the American Cancer Society also supplies wigs at no cost, but I have no experience with that. You might give them a call, though.
I remember feeling just as you do, but it is not nearly as bad as I feared. Remember, Sweety, unlike parts of us that are surgically removed or altered, our hair will grow back!
You will do fine.