While all people's tolerance of things is different, radiation sickness was one of the worst things I've ever been through. Come to think of it, that neck dissection was pretty low on life's list of pleasures as well....... While I know that you are just joking, it's all relative. But I have yet to talk to someone who wasn't glad that they had the tube in retrospect. Given all that, the one thing that is completely subjective, but universal at the same time, is the fear of the unknown.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.