Kershaw,
My 2 cents worth.
First, I have to agree with Brian and Jerry, find a new dentist. I find it very unprofessional and unethical for a dentist (or any other professional) to tell you, "it didn't look good but they would wait and see until my next visit (3 months). " A lot can happen in three months. I really wonder if this guy knows the thought process and worry he kindled in you.
Second, can you see the white spots? Are they on both sides? My suspicion is that they are only on the lower and on both sides.
Third, ENT's and Oral Surgeon's are not all created equal. I would not rule out either specialty as long as you are certain they have the knowledge and skills and experience to treat you.
I know some are going to disagree with me here, but read the whole post before you get your back up.
The scope of practice of ENT's, Oral Surgeons and many other specialities for that matter depends upon the interests of the individual. I personally know ENT's who have not been in an O.R. since specialty school, I also work and refer to an ENT who is on the local Tumor Board, he was a dentist for five years and went back to school and now is a Surgical ENT and MO who limits his pratice to the treatment of OC and H&N cancer. On the other hand, I know Oral surgeons who basically do limited surgery and take out wisom teeth. I also have an Oral surgeon who I refer to who was in dental school when I was there. He finished his training and then went to Italy for two years to study Oral Cancer Treatment and Facial reconstruction. He is a Dentist, Medical Doctor, Board Certified Oral Surgeon, and holds Diplomas in Oral Caner treatment and Facial reconstruction. I'm wandering here...
My point is ...check the credentials of your doctors, ask them about their experience in treating similar patients.
I believe that a team approach in a major cancer treatment center is the best avenue for any cancer treatment. I only mention the above regarding individual specialists for thos who cannot go to a CCC. So check the credentials.
E-mial me if I can answer any questions or help you in any way.
Cheers,
Mike