Do the most aggressive treatment. If and when she were to EVER have a recurrance it just isn't good news- at least from what I've read here.

I had chemo and radiation after my radical topngue surgery and it wasn't fun but I powered through and I feel at peace that I did everything possible to kick this disease. That in itself if worth all the time and discomfort I went through.

Everyone is different in how they handle the treatmetns of cours ebut I didn't think it was too horrendous-- def a lot better than I thought it was going to be.