Thanks all!
Yes, plasic surgery was definitely in the picture--the reconstruction is going to be done initially with tissue/muscle taken from my back, with an implant being considered later. The surgical nurse took a long time explaining that my initial appearance may well not be my final appearance.
And am going to G.P. tomorrow for more pain meds and possibly anti-anxiety as well--can't see me even GETTING to the hospital without them. Also, both kids live away (Sue in CA, without a 'magic card') so need to keep reasonably positive and upbeat when on the phone with them.
Am back at the hospital next week so can ask more questions then
Brenda