Jeff,

Sorry to hear of your Diag. Alot of us have been in the same boat... or take care of those who have . The Best Advice is one day and some days one moment at a time and all things are possible ..not easy ..but possible. You have found yourself in a group of very caring and knowledgeable peole ! Even though this isnt nessacarily a place any of us want to be , IT couldnt be a better bunchof people ..Best wishes to you and your family ..Take a deep breath and write all your questions down for Dr. We will all be here with you , listening , giving info or advice , and just supporting you ! ANd By the way SMOKE < DRINK < or otherwise ..no one deserves this disease and Yes it is unfair...However..You need to be even more unfair to the disease !

Shar


Sharlee
35 year old Female Non smoker, very occasional alcohol ..Scc T1N0M0,partial glossectomy and left neck disection ,2/9/07 No rad deemed ness. 4/16 tonsillectomy ..Trimengenial Neuralga due to surgery