Marica, thankyou for the kind words and the recipe, I'm sure she will like it. They really stressed how important it was not to lose weight but a peg tube was never offered as an option. We now know better.
Danny, as usual you know exactly what to say. Its easy to lose sight of the positive, I hadn't thought of her as a 6 year survivor and I know she hasn't. It's a nice thought....
Carol in RH, thanks for the welcome. She is being treated at Princess Margaret in Toronto. I am actually in Oshawa, and she lives quite close to you in Markham.