Thank you Mark.
That's the thing. Dennis never had the surgery that you (and most others) did. That in itself makes me question the doctors' treatments. Should we have gone for the neck surgery? And with the lung surgery so close behind the end of chemo and rad, what in the world is "normal"? It feels like I'm digging for buried treasure at times. Just to understand the basics of what he is facing seems impossible.
There is much more information available for those who had surgery. The rest of us are kind of hung out to dry. Did we do the right thing? aaarrrgghhhh!
Mandi