I wish I had the wisdom as to give you some advice.. The best I acn say is pray for her and hope for the best. Others in here can probably give you some good advice tho. We have very knowledgeable people on the forum..

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here