Thanks I tried Al-Anon before but stopped going to them. I did call the Dr. yesterday and told them he started him on a new drug. Yesterday I had to go out and when I got back I confronted him about going out I also found another bottle which I believed was purchased while I was gone he denied both but I know that it was his because of finding it in the trash. Want to treat him like I would a teenager as far as what he can do and can't.
Thanks for all your help. I have told our daughter but I haven't told our son on what has happened or any of his family. I think I'm afraid of there rejecting him. Thanks for letting me vent.