Thank you both - question for Allensark - how did the radiation impact your quality of life? With 5 excisions - are you able to speak normally? Just curious. I have had surgery both times - had a radiation consult last fall, but the margins were clear and they decided to hold off and save it for another time if needed.
Lois & Buzz - I'm seeing a Dr. that only practices at Wake Med - would not have been my first choice - but the Dr. is excellent - he and the plastic surgeon did a 10 hour surgery last sept with a free flap of the left forearm. I look a little different - but all in all I think they were an excellent team. I really don't want to have radiation - with all of the swallowing issues, dry mouth etc., I've heard about. I live on Ensure now - not being able to each much or taste has had a major impact on my life. When not working - cooking is something I have always done and something my hubby and I enjoyed doing together.

All I can do is wait for Wednesday and see what comes of the biopsy. You are all wonderful - it's easier to talk to people who have personally faced these same issues and fears..:>)