Welcome, Judy and Jack. I have read your post and your signature line and I am a little confused. Jack has already had surgery for the lymph node? Now youall will decide on the next round of tx? It's usually fun to live with an "unconventional" man, but it can also be a challange :rolleyes: What area of nursing are you in? By the way, taking a week in Vermont to digest the news sounds like a good way to handle things. We will be anxious to hear more from you. Amy in the Ozarks