Post natal and coping with cancer!.Wow what a load you have to carry on your young shoulders.The only advice i can give you is use this forum as much as possible and perhaps find someone you can contact and relate with on a more personal basis(private messages and e-mails).Support and somewhere to let off steam are vital, so dont refuse any help you are offered grab it with both hands ,and like my mum used to say ,when kids are asleep ,you sleep even it is at strange times.I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find the strength to cope with all that life is throwing your way at the moment.
Much love liz in the UK