Hey, Randy, It's a real Bummer that you have to deal with this! So what do you want to ask? What do you need in the way of support? What does your wife [or significant other]need help with [other than managing 5 kids- managing a 2 yr. old counts for 3 kids] Please let us know more about you so we can get on board here. We are here to help. Amy in the Ozarks