Dear Irene, You won't ever be alone if you stick with us, because we all know what it takes to fight this battle, be it patient or caregiver. The strong,courageous people here will hold your hand as long as you need us to. I hope you are starting your "plan of action" as a caregiver. Please research the "How to get through it" board, as it will give you lots of good information as you start this journey.Stay strong- Amy in the Ozarks