Welcome, Gary. I agree this site was a terrific help to me when I was going through treatment. I am glad you found us. I am of the Throw Everything At It shcool of thought about this nasty disease. I was a definite stage 4 and I am closing in on 5 years since diagnosis, having asked for and received very aggressive treatment. If you are offered chemo to go with your rad treatments, I urge you to accept. It will make it a little tougher, but it won't be a picnic anyway, so what's a little more discomfort?? Whatever you elect, it will be over soon and you can get back to your real life. Never forget that in the long view, this is just a blip on the time track. You can do this and we will be here to anwswer any questions you have.