Hello, Stoj. I am very glad that you found this site. There is a wealth of information at the main site, and on this forum, there is always someone who can answer any question you have. Be prepared to get suggestions and information in great quantity, as we who have walked that road are anxious to help in any way that we can.

I applaud you for taking charge of your treatment. I understand the kitchen sink philosophy as I felt exactly the same way almost five years ago.

That you have stopped smoking is smart, as to continue to do so seriously compromises the effectiveness of the radiation. That you have influenced others to do the same is just wonderful.

Pay attention to any changes in your hearing. A very small percentage of people who take cisplatain can end up deaf as a post, which I don't think is a good trade off. I am thus far the only one I know who had this problem and switched chemo drugs, but I feel better when people are aware. My hearing is just fine now.

As you get into the gritty part of rad, remember that is not only your RIGHT not to be in pain, but you will heal much faster without having to deal with it. Having said this, you have the encouragement of everyone on this forum to speak up at the first sign of discomfort and ask for help and keep asking until it is provided. It is much easier to take care of pain at the outset, than later on.

I am glad to hear that you have a PEG. As your mouth gets more sore and swallowing becomes very painful, it will be a lifesaver that will allow you to have the nutrition you will so badly need, will keep you from dehydrating, which is a real risk and something you do not want to deal with, and it is also one slick way to get meds in PDQ. Ask for the liquid form of drugs you are given.

Again, welcome. As you can see, I wasn't kidding about you receiving all kinds of input from us. Ask any questions at all, and if your wife wishes to come here for information, there are many caregivers on the forum who understand much better than we patients what issues she faces with this disease.

Joanna