Mary Ann, hello and hang on to your hat! Hope you have found the "how to get through it" topics here. They will be of invaluable help as youall get your ducks in a row [as we say in Arkansas]. Hope you will lean on us because we can help you get through this. Please ask any sort of question as you need to. As a caregiver, this site has saved my sanity [well-for the most part] Amy