Marni,
Welcome. You'll find great information here and even greater people.
I was diagnosed with Stage 2 tongue cancer and had my surgery in February. I had a partial glossectomy and had a modified neck dissection on the right and middle of my neck. I did not need a graft, but the surgeon did some reconstructive work with my tongue after he removed the tumor. I do not need radiation at this point.
I'd like to second Jim's suggestion to get checked regularly. Though I was told my chance of reoccurence were small, I'm having checkups about every 2 months. It is a little nerve-wracking going in, but great to get the OK.
Best Wishes and let me know if I can help in anyway. --Aimee