Hi- I pray that this journey is comfortable for your brother. Charlie lost his hair from the radiation in the back of his head (it looked like a heart) and shaved it to cover it up. It is starting to grow back 2 months post TX. His chemotherapy didnt make him loose his hair. What is your brothers chemotherapy? Did they give you a detailed treatment plan? What about the stage?
At first this journey can seem overwhelming, but with time it gets more familiar for family and caretakers. It sounds like he is surrouned by love and a wonderful family.
God bless

Delia- Caregiver and fiancee to Charlie ,age 30,(SCC of Larnyx-Stage IV) chemotherapy and radiation- no surgery finished tx:4/7/06 SURVIVIOR!