Hey Gary,
My name is Robert. I had the same cancer and was diagnosed the same way (through Surgery) as well.
I recieved the same treatment with Iressa instead of
Erbitux. I only had one node but was still stage IV.
It was a rough ride but all is well now. i just got my two year and all clear. I had nobody to go throught this with until I discovered this site.
It really helped.
Ask anything, any time. everybody out here wants to help.
Talk to you soon.
-rh