Thank you soo much Chris for your detailed reply. Your kind words touched my heart. I hope and pray for your speedy recovery as well.
My mother is recovering well from her surgery. From 19th August to 26th August, there is a marked improvement in her condition. I have been acting pretty strong and confident, however in my heart it's been one of the toughest time of my life. I am praying constantly and very nervous and worried about the upcoming biopsy result.
The wait has been so brutal...Hope fully by the end of this week or even sooner, we will have the report. I will keep posting here. I hope this all turns out just a bad dream.

Nels, thank you soo much for your offer. I would be more than happy to talk to you considering your recovery from a stage 4 SCC. That would really help me out.