The first thing to do is start at the beginning and tell us about your journey to this point. We would like to know you and help you, but to get to a point where we can reply with anything useful or supportive, you need to give us enough information to do so. If you are having any problems posting, keep you things on one thread so we can follow you easily, please say so and people will try to help you with the mechanics of using this support group interface. So respectfully, no one here will ever know who you really are out in the world, the screen name and software prevent that as long as you don’t post it yourself. So there is nothing to lose by opening up. Those beginning posts will be long probably, but one sentence posts don’t give us much information. B


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.